Mai Chisamba

2 months ago | April 12, 2020

When is the right time to get married?

I am dating a cheapskate I am a 19-year-old female and I am dating a 21-year-old guy. I just finished my Advanced ...

2 months ago | March 29, 2020

Hubby living with another woman

I am a young woman aged 22 and there is a guy who loves me so much. I at times think he is obsessed with me! He is aged ...

3 months ago | March 22, 2020

Does my husband really love me?

I am a guy aged 18 and I am writing to you because my parents are not treating me well. I wrote my Advanced Level ...

3 months ago | February 23, 2020

Wife brings home the bacon

I am a 40-year-old man, married to a 37-year-old woman. We are blessed with two sons. When we got married we had O-Level ...

4 months ago | February 9, 2020

Old flame back in the picture

I am a 28-year-old guy who is married to my 26-year-old wife. We are parents to a one-year-old daughter. I love my wife ...

4 months ago | February 2, 2020

Not dealing with rejection well

I am a gainfully employed 24-year-old guy. In our neighbourhood there is a very poor family. They are both hard working ...

4 months ago | January 26, 2020

Mysterious caller is ruining my peace

I am a girl aged 19 and I am currently in a relationship with an average looking guy. I love him so much and I would do ...

6 months ago | December 22, 2019

Getting into a nasty habit of borrowing

HELLO Amai, I hope you are well. Coincidentally, I stay close to one of my childhood friends. We get on so well, our ...

6 months ago | December 15, 2019

Sugar daddy is being clingy

I am a 24-year-old woman married to a 26-year-old. My husband is very abusive and he does it in the name of punishing ...

3 years ago | November 2, 2017

Lover’s ex, mother gang up on me

Mai Chisamba, I desperately need your help. I am a 26-year-old woman and I have been living with a 34-year-old man for ...

3 years ago | October 1, 2017

My father is a maniac

I am a woman who comes from a family of six. I am one of three sisters and I also have three brothers. My other sisters ...

3 years ago | September 24, 2017

Saving marriages one letter at a time

When her cellphone rings, there is temptation to sing along to the melody as it is one of those very popular anthems – ...

3 years ago | September 10, 2017

Newborn son has same name as neighbour

Makadii amai? I’m a 30 year old guy and I married my wife and had my white wedding in church in 2016. All is well ...

3 years ago | April 9, 2017

Wife wants to make me the maid

I have a big problem, life has changed for the worst for me in the last three years. I am 38 and my wife is 35. We have ...