The Sunday Mail
Soul ties can be put in two basic categories, namely godly souls and ungodly soul ties. In other words, there are good soul ties and bad soul ties.
The soul tie between David and Jonathan was a good soul tie. It was a godly soul tie while a soul tie between a man and his mistress is an ungodly one. The following features or characteristics distinguish godly soul ties from ungodly soul ties.
GODLY SOUL TIES
They are based on love
They are reinforced by godly behaviour
They function within godly boundaries
They result in blessing and wholeness
UNGODLY SOUL TIES
They are created through sinful relationships and activities
They are founded on lust or selfish desire
They are reinforced by sinful behaviour
They function outside God’s boundaries
They lead to greater sin
They result in bondage and destruction
SYMPTOMS OF UNGODLY SOUL TIES
You think of or ‘see’ someone in your mind when you are intimate with your spouse
Someone whose voice your hear in your head
Tendencies to be domineering and controlling in a relationship
Obsessive pre-occupation with another to the neglect of the things of the Lord
Dreaming or waking up at night thinking about someone on a regular basis
Your feelings go haywire when you bump into your EX
Cyber –stalking your EX on social networks
Loss of your individuality
Loss of your spiritual equilibrium and ability to love others
Inability to establish and maintain healthy relationships
Shutting down emotionally
Lack of judgment and discernment
An unhealthy or unnatural attraction to people even to your own detriment
Even when the relationship is over, you cannot stop thinking about the person. You cannot get over the relationship. In fact you will do anything to keep the relationship going.
Every time you see the person or talk to them even though the relationship is over, you are drawn to them.
Davison & Gwendoline Kanokanga, Founders & Trustees of The Marriage Centre, Founders & Senior Pastors of Impact Christian Centre
