The Sunday Mail
A soul tie that you do not deal with will deal with you. It will hinder any future relationships that you may enter into.
An ungodly soul tie will keep you from properly bonding with your spouse. An ungodly soul tie which you do not break will break you. Unbroken soul ties break relationships. You will find it difficult to receive love. You will have commitment issues in relationships.
If you are a divorcee, before you re-marry, you need to break your soul tie with your ex-spouse. If you engaged in sex before marriage, you need to break the soul ties you have with those you had sex with before you get married. Without breaking soul ties, your soul will be in bondage. Your soul will be scattered.
“ . . . he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind. For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord, he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.” James 1: 6-7
A scattered soul makes it difficult for you to receive love from your spouse no matter how much they shower you with love. Your inability to receive love from your spouse leads you to the wrong conclusion that your spouse does not love you.
A scattered soul also keeps you from giving yourself fully to your spouse. For this reason, it is particularly important that all soul ties that one may have formed through fornication or vows, be broken before one gets married.
The same applies to soul ties formed through adultery. It is not enough for someone who was involved in an adulterous relationship to simply terminate the relationship. In addition to terminating the relationship there is need to break the soul tie formed as a result of the relationship.
The breaking of the soul tie is particularly important because you cannot have a healthy relationship with someone whose soul is tied elsewhere, a soul tie that is in bondage. The reason for this is found in 3 John 1:2 which says: “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.”
In other words the prosperity of a marriage is dependent upon the prosperity of the souls of the parties to that marriage.
A tied soul is not a prosperous soul. A scattered soul is not a prosperous soul. In order for any soul to be prosperous it must be free first. Here is what you need to do in order to set your soul free from any soul tie.
l Acknowledge the existence of the soul tie.
l Appreciate the need to break the soul tie.
l Repent of any sin that led to the formation of the soul tie.
l Forgive yourself and the person(s) with whom you have the soul tie.
l Renounce any vows or commitments made that played a part in forming the soul tie.
l Get rid of any gifts which symbolize the ungodly practices in the ungodly relationship.
l Renounce and break the soul tie in Jesus name. You do this by using your mouth. You must vocalise your renunciation because: “Death and life lie in the power of the tongue.” Proverbs 18:21. Use your mouth to claim your freedom. Use your mouth to terminate all ungodly soul ties. Remember that the Bible says:
“You will also declare a thing, and it will be established for you.” Job 22:28
Davison & Gwendoline Kanokanga are Founders & Trustees of The Marriage Centre: www.themarriagecentre.com. They are also founders & Senior Pastors of Impact Christian Centre: www.impactchristiancentre.net
